Hello my amazing readers, welcome to my blog. On today’s post we will be talking about how one should handle being ghosted, and i will be sharing with you all […]
Hello my amazing readers, welcome to my blog.
On today’s post we will be talking about how one should handle being ghosted, and i will be sharing with you all my experience on how someone so dear to me ghosted me.
Ghosting means cutting ties with someone without any explanation or completely letting go of communication with someone or unceremonious exit from ones life. This whole disappearing without a notice from ones life does not only apply to sexual relationships, it is now happening in friendships too.
I have been wondering for months now why i would be ghosted by a friend so close to my heart. Angela (not her real name) has been my friend for sometime, we connected immediately we met each other; i always look forward to speaking and chatting with her over the phone as we do not live in the same city. But for 3months now, she left my WhatsApp messages on read and never replied (she’s been active on all social media platforms)
How i handled it:
I have come to realize people get ghosted daily, which means it’s not new and i am not alone in this either. So i decided to match silence with silence and delete anything that reminds me of her.
What are your thoughts on my decisions? If you were me, would you rather match silence with silence or seek for closure for a second time? Have you been ghosted before, how did you handle it? Or, are you also presently dealing with the hurts of a dear friend ghosting on you? Have you ghosted on anyone before (if yes), why?
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